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about Annie:

okay so i got this friend of mine, well shes too ...close to my boyfriend. im not jealous or anything but its just ..its weird shes always leavin him comments tellin him hes cute and she did this survey and it says that "wat would u do if i held ur hand (i = my boyfriend)" and she wrote down iono...and that shows me that she might say no and she might say yes..>>'' ...a good friend would say no and back off of my boyfriend...idk..maybe i am a lil jealous? and once when we were tlkin she was like "oh when he comes down here, ill poke him for u" ..im like...isnt that flirting? ...eh idk wat to do...

Dear xbbydumboh

talk to her about this. i would say its definitely flirting and tell her u have serious feelings for him because(duh) hes ur boyfriend. and it duz seem ur jealous but thats ok. u have right! hes ur boyfriend and shes making u feel uncomfortable. Just talk to her about it! Come back to me if it duznt work...

love-

Annie 

 

ok. well this girl at school started a rumor that I hate mexicans and black people and that I'm a racist and It is not true. Now no black people are talking to me and ive tried explaining but they just won't listen. What should I do??

Dear xoxo_dreamer_xo

hm. tough. juss dun listen. they cum up to u juss tell them the truth and all that jazz. make sure they are making eye contact with you so that u know they are ACTUALLY listening. if they still dun believe you juss forget about it. Rumours die down even if it takes a week. a month. a yr. or a decade. but its ok. everythhing will be fine.

love-

Annie

i wish i knew where to start. my girlfriend broke up with me cause she thought i was making out with a guy, who shes now datnig, and whos friend payed me to do stuff. this same friend who i was dating isnt talking to me cause my ex other friend told him stuff that wasnt true. my parents hate me and i get atound with the guys. if u havent caught it, im femme. help.

Dear im_the_least_you_could_do

woah. well. i think shes going with the guy you were "making out" with so she can try and get you back. as for the friend who wont talk to you. Tell her/him that they arent true in a note or oer the phone or oer the internet. if she/he was a true friend she/he would belive you! not sum other person!

Love-

Annie

my BFF and my best friend are fighting and my BFF told me to tell her what my best friend says bad about her, and my best friend said the same thing to me. My BFF  told me not to talk to to my best friend and my best friend told me not to talk to my BFF. what do i do?

 Dear diamond_cutie93

so i see that you are caught in the middle. what i would do is to STAY OUT OF IT. they are fighitng a battle in a huge war *and the war is friendship*. You shouldnt be caught in the middle of the battle. But try to set things straight. Its not your fault they are fighting. you shouldnt do anything. Just help them get over it. They will thank you later.

Love-

Annie

ok so theres these two girls that used to be my friends but all of a sudden they start getting mad at me and my 2 bffs for no reason and call us all this stuff. now me and one of my bffs really really dont like the other 2 girls. but my other bff is still there friend... everytime she talks about them i get a little mad but try to hide it....... wut do i do

Dear i_got_that_boom_boom_42

i know what your going thru! tell her thgt you dont like them, if she doesnt already no. if she does no then tell her i really dont like them. ask "whats so great about them? " "why do you think that you hang out with them?" "dont me and OTHER BEST FRIENDS NAME HERE are more important?" "we love you and they prolly dont know you as well as me and BEsT FRIEND HERE do." friends dont let friends fade. 

 Love-

 Annie

 ok well my bff is like really depressed cuz her grandpa is about to die and shes not herself at all i want her self back wut do i do??

 Dear i_got_that_boom_boom_42

 there isnt much that you can do except wait.  I am pretty sure you know how it feels when you lose someone... so i guess she is in the pre-mourning stage. Which is what i explain as she feels as if he is already gone. It could be days, weeks, months, or years before she i herself again. Just be a friend and comfort her and the more you do the less time you'll have to wait.

 Love-

 Annie



ok well i have another problem my friend is my true friend we are bffs and she likes this guy .... she went out with him ....... and they broke up she still likes him and i try to tell her he is not worth it here is the bad thing he broke up with her at a school dance because there was some one hott there at that night and a minute later they were over and she still likes him what do i do ????

 Dear Man_life_sucks

 Tell her that he is a jerk and doesnt deserve her. Guys arent worth tears and guys who are wont make you cry! Guys dont know what the want until it is gone and has already slipped through there fingers. Tell her that guys are stupid! Thats the truth! She'll get over him eventually!

 Love-

 Annie

  well I like this guy, and he just broke up with his girl friend ...well ex ... and I want to go with him but  my friend still likes him. she said she will get mad at me if I go with him. you might say friends first but I like ... the guy.... and she thinks he is all hers! what should I do ??????

 Dear man_life_sucks

 I say go for it. This could be true love! I know your young and all but hey you never know when you will meet Mr. Right. Go for it! He broke up with her. He doesn't want her and you can tell her that Ask Annie said that. Don't give up. Don't listen to what your friend says. If she gets mad at you then she was never a true friend.

 Love-

 Annie

  yeah but I don't wanna leave my best friend for him. its just so hard, cuz now I'm beginning to wonder if i really do love him. from waiting for such a long time, it all seems so so natural. I like him; he doesn't like me. I have no chance... I told her that I like(d) him, but its like she doesn't even care. I don't wanna put her thru tough times. its not like she can help not loving him... >.<... he's a great guy.

 Dear cali_chik206

 I am sorry dear. but from what I hear she isn't a good friend and he isn't a good friend. I know that you love him (or like) but he doesn't seem like a good friend let alone boyfriend material. if she doesn't care that you like him then she isn't a good friend at all. Dear. I know this will hurt but... you need to let them both go...

 Love-

 Annie



 my two best friends(guy and girl) and I regret. that I ever introduced  them to each other cuz see I've  been liking the guy friend for 7 years and well my girl friend likes him too and I just don't like it she always talks about him and I get sick and tired of it I've told her to back off and she just said okay as if she doesn't like him. but I went over to her house and she told me she still liked him. and then thing is he use to like me a year ago. and it seems like he likes her more than me. I WAS her best friend but now it feels as if I have officially been replace. as if I don't even exist anymore in his world. I've asked him out earlier but he turned me down. he said that nothing will change in our friendship. but he said wrong cuz that's not how it is.

 Dear  cali_chik206

 wow girl. its like me and you are twins... lol  anyway;

 here's my advice. Just pull him aside and talk to him one on one and no HER. just you 2. (you and him) if she talks about him just tell her to shut up or go home. *or if your at her house call home and say you need to go home* that's what I did. and one day just tell your girl friend that you are getting really sick of this and just tell her that you LOVE him and cant keep him out of your mind and tell her that if she really likes him then tell her that its you or HIM. if she says him.. then she was never really your friend...

 come back if you don't find this satisfying.

 *sorry if you don't like that I fixed the question... I wanted it to look ok.

 Love-

 Annie



 I have this "friend" who told me her boyfriend cheated on her. I went to IM the guy and he told me she cheated on him. I asked her if it was true and she said yes. Then we got in this big argument and I hate her, like I never want to see, talk, or IM her ever again. I want to erase her from my life like she was never in it. I heard that you were in this type of situation so what should I do Annie?

 B-A-I-L-E-Y

 Dear m3d0nt_kn0wy0u

Well. I would listen to what she had to say and then go to the ex-boyfriend and hear what he has to say. If you try erasing her from your life you know that if she is friends with any of your friends you are going to hear from her in some way shape or form. Erasing someone from your life *I have found* never works. I usually see my self leading into their direction again. She is telling the truth if she has said stuff about this situation. Don't automatically go with the guy's side if you haven't heard what she has to say. Rethink thru the facts and try to sort everything out.

Love-

Annie

  there's this guy. he used to be one of my really good guy friends. all of a sudden he starts calling me poser. what do I do?

Dear I_got_the_boom_boom_42

 I think he is just trying to "follow the crowd" and if he really was your best friend he wouldn't do that. he would stand next to you thru and thru. it doesn't matter what kinda clothes you wear, the shows you watch, or what you look like. as long as your happy being you that should be all the he cares about! if he has to like you for your outside appearance then he has something wrong with his head. he needs to think about his decision and it would be okay for you to help him along the way. Just ask him why he is saying the things he does and ask him why he had the change of heart!

Love- 

  Annie

 im making a C in math and.when I get my report my moms going to go crazy because I told her I would make straight A's.... and she's gonna tell me to STUDY and all kind of stuff but why should I study because we are not going to be doing that same work in the NEXT semester.. what do I tell her?
 Sarah
 
Dear ohsnapXD
 
now you are in a dilemma...you can either tell her that you were distracted and you shouldn't study because there is no point in it. Explain to her how you know that you aren't going to do the same thing as this Semester. Or you can tell her that you promise to do better next time and you know that you weren't giving 100%. She should realize that you are telling her the truth and that you really will do better. Work hard next year and MERRY CHRISTMAS. 
Love-
 
          Annie

 there's this boy I went out with and  I liked him a whole bunch and I thought he liked me too but then.... he broke up with me for no reason.  I still like him a lot but I don't want to.!! wut do I do??~

Dear I_got_that_boom_boom_42

   maybe he wasn't ready for a serious relationship and broke up with you to get some free time away from his love. ask him to talk to you and ask all the questions you want answered. tell him how this made you feel and how this is effecting your life. don't ignore the feeling you have inside for this boy. it could just be true love hurting you inside and out.

Love-

Annie

  I like this dude but he is really really short as in half-my-size-short... and people are saying he's going to ask me out... what should I say?
 
Dear Gop370
 
 That's a tuffy. Well any ways. I think you should say yes so that you give him a chance. Its wrong to turn someone down because of their height. Maybe he is sensitive...maybe he's not. You never know unless you give him a try!!!
 
Love- 
 
Annie

   there is this  guy and I broke up with him I but I like his best friend and I think he likes me so should I go with him ???? because if I do it might ruin  there best friend relationship wat do I do??????????????
 
 Dear Man_life_sucks 
                          
      Now I have a real life experience on that. DO NOT GO OUT WITH THE BEST FRIEND. Because it WILL ruin the best friend relationship because they guy you broke up with might still love you!! I know that you love him and all but you cannot ruin a relationship like that! Maybe if you know they are mad at each other and aren't best friends at them time you could but not while they are. So My advice is sorry but you have no choice but to not go out with him. Do the right thing!
 
 Love-
 
  Annie

 There is this boy and when I go out with him I stop liking him but when I don't go with him I like him wat do I do????
 
Dear Man_Life_Sucks

 Maybe you DON'T like him. Maybe you just like the popularity he brings towards you. if you do like him for his personality then ask yourself, why do I like him? why am I attracted to him? and most of all do I see myself with him in the near future? does he have a nasty past(like cheating)? And if you still need my help cum back I will try to help the best I can.
 
 Love-
  
Annie

  how do I get a girl to like me?

Dear christians_site

You CANT make a girl like you. But what I think you should do is tell the special girl that you like her. It will make her aware that you have fallen-head-over-hills-for-her. Maybe she doesn't like you NOW but she might like you in the future. I know what you are going thru. Why don't you hang out with her? Why don't you ask her on a date? If she doesn't like you then maybe it wasn't meant to be.But maybe that one DATE can change the near future!

love-

Annie